Also what a girl needs, incidentally, is not for you to listen. Though I set great store by the cliched wisdom of chick flicks and the like (people seem to think that just because certain ideas have been repeated a number of times, they lose all value), an important element is missing while 'listening' adoringly to conversation.
The evolution of female assertion and the 'metro sexuality' of the man now means that women are not the only ones who need to express feelings, while men don't possess the sole shoulders to cry on. Being on this shaky, equal footing - what now endears is conversation and a stimulation of wits, before other things. You know?
One needs to listen automatically and respond in a true-to-self vein, otherwise it is probable that both of you will lose interest beyond a point in time.
However, if by chance you do find that person who engages your senses and titillates your mind, by god hold on to him/her. It's those journeys that make up your life and your heart, piece by piece.
The evolution of female assertion and the 'metro sexuality' of the man now means that women are not the only ones who need to express feelings, while men don't possess the sole shoulders to cry on. Being on this shaky, equal footing - what now endears is conversation and a stimulation of wits, before other things. You know?
One needs to listen automatically and respond in a true-to-self vein, otherwise it is probable that both of you will lose interest beyond a point in time.
However, if by chance you do find that person who engages your senses and titillates your mind, by god hold on to him/her. It's those journeys that make up your life and your heart, piece by piece.
